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Season of Kink bingo
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seasonofkink this year. I got my card and immediately got paralyzed by the amount of choice (which squares/lines to aim for first, which pairings to use, how to interpret the (sometimes quite broad) prompts into a specific scenario/act, etc.). I would appreciate some help figuring out what to do/where to start, so please suggest some pairings you'd like to see for certain kinks, and maybe the kind of scenario you have in mind! It would even be helpful just to pick out some squares that look interesting to help me know what to focus on. Anonymous commenting is on, so you should be able to leave me a prompt even if you don't have a Dreamwidth account. Thank you!
1) Smoking/intoxication: "Finding smoking sexy, either doing it or watching someone else do it. Intoxication can come from alcohol or various drugs, prescription, over the counter, or illegal. It's more about enjoying and kinking on the sensations of the intoxication rather than just having sex while high or drunk." (Just a heads up, I probably have a preference for intoxication/drugs rather than smoking.)
2) Pictures/video: "A kink for pictures and film or video. Character A might find it very exciting to take photos/paint pictures of Character B, and later look at them. Or Character B finds it very arousing when Character C films or takes photos of them..."
3) Aphrodisiacs/altered mental states - FILLED: Under the Rose's Spell (Bravely Default, Edea/Fiore)
4) Spanking - FILLED: Behind Closed Doors (Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, Quark/Brunt)
5) Interrogation/kidnapping: "This can be real interrogation and/or kidnapping, or a roleplay of it where all parties have consented beforehand. Perhaps the kidnapped character focuses on the feeling of helplessness, the fear and confusion, trying to figure out what the kidnapper wants, maybe they develop Stockholm Syndrome if it lasts for a long time? Character A might have fantasised about being abducted and their partner has arranged for it to happen. Maybe Character B interrogates Character C about their whereabouts, being jealous, or maybe they're roleplaying a police interrogation scene, and gets off on the feeling of power and trying to get the answers they want... This square includes real prison and police settings with interrogation, of course, as long as there's some kind of erotic focus there as well. If you're looking for a square to house your alien abduction fanworks, this might be it."
6) Uniform kink: "This is not exactly authority figures and not exactly dress up either, they overlap, certainly, but this also covers some things that are different. For this kink, we have French maids, military, postmen, guards, firemen, flight attendants, nurses, domestic/servicemen, etc... People in uniform of some sort. Clergy might also fall under this kink, if the focus is more on what they're wearing, not their particular kind of authority. Think of uniforms as a type of dress that defines a person's occupation in an instant. Some superheroes can easily fall into this category. Character A finds Character B super hot in a uniform, or Character B feels super sexy in a uniform, for example, but there can also be a character solo kinking on uniform, touching it, masturbating with it, looking at pictures of uniformed people, putting on a uniform and pretending to have that occupation and getting turned on from it..."
7) Shaving/waxing: "Smooth, smooth legs, or armpits, or heads, or genitals... Whatever your characters want to shave or wax. Note that this square is not for wax play with candles, but for hair removal. It can be about the actual act of shaving or waxing, or the sensations, the pain, the smoothness after, how it feels to be caressed afterwards... It can be about a character shaving or waxing themselves, or doing it to another."
8) Chastity device/orgasm control: "Chastity devices can lead the mind to medieval times with knights in shining armour and their ladies waiting at home with their privates encased in shiny armour as well. Similar devices do exist today, but there's also "cages" for penises, usually made of plastic. With these in place, it's impossible for the wearer to engage in any sexual activity. Orgasm control can be done solo or with a partner, and is simply about controlling someone's orgasm, or holding it off. Character A might find it a real turn on to push Character B really close to orgasm, only to deny them the release, and then start pushing them towards it again - this is also called edging. Maybe Character B enjoys the frustration of not being allowed to come, or perhaps it's just that when they're finally allowed to come it's that much more intense..."
9) Pornography - FILLED: Different Strokes (Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, Odo/Quark)
10) Dirty talk: "Telling one's lover what they want to do and exactly how they're going to do it, praising a lover's charms in extremely graphic terms, arousing a lover with sexy stories - or sometimes just profanity if a character doesn't normally use it. Maybe Character A is a really sweet person, and hearing the word fuck coming from their mouth is a big turn-on for Character B? Dirty talk is often considered dirty because it's obscene, in one way or another."
11) Fantasies: "Many times a fantasy can be much better than the reality of a kink. This is the prompt for exploring all kinds of sexual and kinky fantasies. They can include rape fantasies, fantasies about the neighbour, a coworker, a crush, fantasies about certain sexual acts or specific kinks... It can be fantasies while masturbating or fantasies together with another person, but it can also be doing the things a character has been fantasising about for a long time. Perhaps a character is being turned on by and getting satisfaction from realising another character's darkest and kinkiest fantasies."
12) Bites/bruises: "Biting doesn't have to be painful; it can be nibbling, teeth dragging over skin, a little nip... But it can also be applied with some pressure, and then it can hurt and leave marks or even bruises. Bruises can also come from a hard grip around a wrist, a whipping, or simply from walking into a the corner of the desk. Maybe Character A loves to kiss them better, or thinks they look really hot? One type of character whose bite can be considered both scary and sexy is of course the vampire..."
13) Free Kink. (Please feel free to suggest a kink/pairing here too because I need help narrowing things down. Note to self: Here are probably the top ones I was hoping to get but didn't, if it helps: Dressup/costumes; Emotion play/jealousy; Mirrors/doubles; Shower/bath; Voyeurism.)
14) Sadomasochism - FILLED: Rough Love (Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, Quark/Grilka)
15) Servitude: "This can cover a wide range of situations. It can be actual servants serving their master/mistress, and either of them kinking on it; it can be a roleplay situation; it can be as simple as someone enjoying and getting aroused by preparing a meal or a bath for their partner, or it can be as complex as the most intricate bdsm dungeon scene... The main thing here is that one character fulfills the other's wishes and do things for their pleasure."
16) Ownership/collars: "The first part of this prompt is about owning someone else, or being owned. It can be real slavery if your fandom has that, or it can be the negotiated possession of a Master/Mistress and a slave in a BDSM type relationship. Collars are often popular in all kinds of BDSM scenes, and here you can focus on how it it feels to wear them, the sensations they evoke, both physical and emotional; or you can focus on the other side, how it feels to collar someone."
17) Secrecy: "This is different from anonymity kink, because the characters don't have to be unknown to each other. It's more about keeping something secret and finding that erotic. Perhaps one of the characters gets off on keeping their relationship secret? Maybe Character X is wearing a sex toy or a collar under their clothes and gets off on no one else knowing about it?"
18) Teasing: "Teasing is all about keeping the other character on their toes, increasing the tension and arousal. It can be light and gentle, with soft touches and brushes of lips, subtle promises of more to come later, or it can be hardcore and almost cruel, go all the way to orgasm denial. It's up to you (and your characters). This is also a good square for striptease and lap dances."
19) Power play - FILLED: Latinum Chains (Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, Quark/Brunt)
20) Held down: "Being restrained without the use of bondage, just by pure strength and/or weight - arms pinned over the character's head, someone lying on top of the character, Character A sitting on Character B's face, etc. Some of this can take place either on a bed or a floor, or even against a wall."
21) Consent play/negotiation: "BDSM negotiation with boundaries and safe words, or playing with consent in other ways, where consent has been given much earlier for a certain act. Rape play and arranged kidnappings, for example, where the "victim" has actually consented beforehand, and maybe even helped planning it. Even outside of BDSM, some negotiating can be of good use, perhaps planning out some other kink the characters want to try out. And talking about what one wants and desires, what the boundaries are and what a person maybe, possibly, under the right conditions might want to do, can also be a kind of foreplay and create some erotic tension."
22) Obedience: "This is about finding it hot to obey (or be obeyed), and also for those characters who really like pushing the limits and see what happens if they disobey. Perhaps Character A just can't resist deliberately not doing what their partner tells them to, just to make them angry, to get disciplined or punished in some way. Perhaps Character B really enjoys doing whatever Character C wants them to, getting off on it."
23) Hurt & comfort: "Hurt & comfort (or hurt/comfort, as it's more commonly written) is a special genre and kink, involving the mental, physical, and/or emotional distress of a character and the actions taken by another to provide comfort. Fan works in this category should not focus only on the hurt/injury/sickness. Sometimes the hurt can be off-screen and the focus is entirely on the comfort. For example, Character A has experienced an emotional trauma, so Character B takes it upon themselves to comfort and take care of Character A, finding that they get more than just a warm-and-fuzzy feeling for helping a friend in need. Character C might be turned on by having their hair petted, or their body caressed. Perhaps Character D enjoys comforting the person they have inflicted pain upon. Fanworks for this kink can be focused on the emotions and reactions of either the comforting character or the one being comforted."
24) Bondage/restraints - FILLED: Not quite fusion (Steven Universe, Jasper/Lapis)
25) Dildo play/fisting: "Using dildos on oneself or on another person, either as a complement to masturbation or as a sex act in itself. Maybe the character is using several, gradually larger dildos? The use of strap-on dildos also falls under this square. Fisting is the art of putting one's entire hand inside someone's body, vaginally or anally. It takes a lot of preparation and time, but for those who like it, it's reported to be a very intense experience."
seasonofkink this year. I got my card and immediately got paralyzed by the amount of choice (which squares/lines to aim for first, which pairings to use, how to interpret the (sometimes quite broad) prompts into a specific scenario/act, etc.). I would appreciate some help figuring out what to do/where to start, so please suggest some pairings you'd like to see for certain kinks, and maybe the kind of scenario you have in mind! It would even be helpful just to pick out some squares that look interesting to help me know what to focus on. Anonymous commenting is on, so you should be able to leave me a prompt even if you don't have a Dreamwidth account. Thank you!Full list of kinks
1) Smoking/intoxication: "Finding smoking sexy, either doing it or watching someone else do it. Intoxication can come from alcohol or various drugs, prescription, over the counter, or illegal. It's more about enjoying and kinking on the sensations of the intoxication rather than just having sex while high or drunk." (Just a heads up, I probably have a preference for intoxication/drugs rather than smoking.)
2) Pictures/video: "A kink for pictures and film or video. Character A might find it very exciting to take photos/paint pictures of Character B, and later look at them. Or Character B finds it very arousing when Character C films or takes photos of them..."
5) Interrogation/kidnapping: "This can be real interrogation and/or kidnapping, or a roleplay of it where all parties have consented beforehand. Perhaps the kidnapped character focuses on the feeling of helplessness, the fear and confusion, trying to figure out what the kidnapper wants, maybe they develop Stockholm Syndrome if it lasts for a long time? Character A might have fantasised about being abducted and their partner has arranged for it to happen. Maybe Character B interrogates Character C about their whereabouts, being jealous, or maybe they're roleplaying a police interrogation scene, and gets off on the feeling of power and trying to get the answers they want... This square includes real prison and police settings with interrogation, of course, as long as there's some kind of erotic focus there as well. If you're looking for a square to house your alien abduction fanworks, this might be it."
6) Uniform kink: "This is not exactly authority figures and not exactly dress up either, they overlap, certainly, but this also covers some things that are different. For this kink, we have French maids, military, postmen, guards, firemen, flight attendants, nurses, domestic/servicemen, etc... People in uniform of some sort. Clergy might also fall under this kink, if the focus is more on what they're wearing, not their particular kind of authority. Think of uniforms as a type of dress that defines a person's occupation in an instant. Some superheroes can easily fall into this category. Character A finds Character B super hot in a uniform, or Character B feels super sexy in a uniform, for example, but there can also be a character solo kinking on uniform, touching it, masturbating with it, looking at pictures of uniformed people, putting on a uniform and pretending to have that occupation and getting turned on from it..."
7) Shaving/waxing: "Smooth, smooth legs, or armpits, or heads, or genitals... Whatever your characters want to shave or wax. Note that this square is not for wax play with candles, but for hair removal. It can be about the actual act of shaving or waxing, or the sensations, the pain, the smoothness after, how it feels to be caressed afterwards... It can be about a character shaving or waxing themselves, or doing it to another."
8) Chastity device/orgasm control: "Chastity devices can lead the mind to medieval times with knights in shining armour and their ladies waiting at home with their privates encased in shiny armour as well. Similar devices do exist today, but there's also "cages" for penises, usually made of plastic. With these in place, it's impossible for the wearer to engage in any sexual activity. Orgasm control can be done solo or with a partner, and is simply about controlling someone's orgasm, or holding it off. Character A might find it a real turn on to push Character B really close to orgasm, only to deny them the release, and then start pushing them towards it again - this is also called edging. Maybe Character B enjoys the frustration of not being allowed to come, or perhaps it's just that when they're finally allowed to come it's that much more intense..."
10) Dirty talk: "Telling one's lover what they want to do and exactly how they're going to do it, praising a lover's charms in extremely graphic terms, arousing a lover with sexy stories - or sometimes just profanity if a character doesn't normally use it. Maybe Character A is a really sweet person, and hearing the word fuck coming from their mouth is a big turn-on for Character B? Dirty talk is often considered dirty because it's obscene, in one way or another."
11) Fantasies: "Many times a fantasy can be much better than the reality of a kink. This is the prompt for exploring all kinds of sexual and kinky fantasies. They can include rape fantasies, fantasies about the neighbour, a coworker, a crush, fantasies about certain sexual acts or specific kinks... It can be fantasies while masturbating or fantasies together with another person, but it can also be doing the things a character has been fantasising about for a long time. Perhaps a character is being turned on by and getting satisfaction from realising another character's darkest and kinkiest fantasies."
12) Bites/bruises: "Biting doesn't have to be painful; it can be nibbling, teeth dragging over skin, a little nip... But it can also be applied with some pressure, and then it can hurt and leave marks or even bruises. Bruises can also come from a hard grip around a wrist, a whipping, or simply from walking into a the corner of the desk. Maybe Character A loves to kiss them better, or thinks they look really hot? One type of character whose bite can be considered both scary and sexy is of course the vampire..."
13) Free Kink. (Please feel free to suggest a kink/pairing here too because I need help narrowing things down. Note to self: Here are probably the top ones I was hoping to get but didn't, if it helps: Dressup/costumes; Emotion play/jealousy; Mirrors/doubles; Shower/bath; Voyeurism.)
15) Servitude: "This can cover a wide range of situations. It can be actual servants serving their master/mistress, and either of them kinking on it; it can be a roleplay situation; it can be as simple as someone enjoying and getting aroused by preparing a meal or a bath for their partner, or it can be as complex as the most intricate bdsm dungeon scene... The main thing here is that one character fulfills the other's wishes and do things for their pleasure."
16) Ownership/collars: "The first part of this prompt is about owning someone else, or being owned. It can be real slavery if your fandom has that, or it can be the negotiated possession of a Master/Mistress and a slave in a BDSM type relationship. Collars are often popular in all kinds of BDSM scenes, and here you can focus on how it it feels to wear them, the sensations they evoke, both physical and emotional; or you can focus on the other side, how it feels to collar someone."
17) Secrecy: "This is different from anonymity kink, because the characters don't have to be unknown to each other. It's more about keeping something secret and finding that erotic. Perhaps one of the characters gets off on keeping their relationship secret? Maybe Character X is wearing a sex toy or a collar under their clothes and gets off on no one else knowing about it?"
18) Teasing: "Teasing is all about keeping the other character on their toes, increasing the tension and arousal. It can be light and gentle, with soft touches and brushes of lips, subtle promises of more to come later, or it can be hardcore and almost cruel, go all the way to orgasm denial. It's up to you (and your characters). This is also a good square for striptease and lap dances."
20) Held down: "Being restrained without the use of bondage, just by pure strength and/or weight - arms pinned over the character's head, someone lying on top of the character, Character A sitting on Character B's face, etc. Some of this can take place either on a bed or a floor, or even against a wall."
21) Consent play/negotiation: "BDSM negotiation with boundaries and safe words, or playing with consent in other ways, where consent has been given much earlier for a certain act. Rape play and arranged kidnappings, for example, where the "victim" has actually consented beforehand, and maybe even helped planning it. Even outside of BDSM, some negotiating can be of good use, perhaps planning out some other kink the characters want to try out. And talking about what one wants and desires, what the boundaries are and what a person maybe, possibly, under the right conditions might want to do, can also be a kind of foreplay and create some erotic tension."
22) Obedience: "This is about finding it hot to obey (or be obeyed), and also for those characters who really like pushing the limits and see what happens if they disobey. Perhaps Character A just can't resist deliberately not doing what their partner tells them to, just to make them angry, to get disciplined or punished in some way. Perhaps Character B really enjoys doing whatever Character C wants them to, getting off on it."
23) Hurt & comfort: "Hurt & comfort (or hurt/comfort, as it's more commonly written) is a special genre and kink, involving the mental, physical, and/or emotional distress of a character and the actions taken by another to provide comfort. Fan works in this category should not focus only on the hurt/injury/sickness. Sometimes the hurt can be off-screen and the focus is entirely on the comfort. For example, Character A has experienced an emotional trauma, so Character B takes it upon themselves to comfort and take care of Character A, finding that they get more than just a warm-and-fuzzy feeling for helping a friend in need. Character C might be turned on by having their hair petted, or their body caressed. Perhaps Character D enjoys comforting the person they have inflicted pain upon. Fanworks for this kink can be focused on the emotions and reactions of either the comforting character or the one being comforted."
25) Dildo play/fisting: "Using dildos on oneself or on another person, either as a complement to masturbation or as a sex act in itself. Maybe the character is using several, gradually larger dildos? The use of strap-on dildos also falls under this square. Fisting is the art of putting one's entire hand inside someone's body, vaginally or anally. It takes a lot of preparation and time, but for those who like it, it's reported to be a very intense experience."